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My Husband Had an Affair While I was Pregnant

My husband had an affair and got her pregnant

I did get in contact with the father and we paid for a dna test and he came out to be the father. Even when financial and religious constraints don't apply, the chances of successful conception and a healthy baby are far lower than with natural sex. We love each other, but I have to admit that our relationship had some conflict right from the start. Time is a good healer and his baby never asked to be born. I am married with my wife for 9 years and have 20 months baby girl from an affair. We had an affair for 19 months.

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My Husband Had an Affair While I was Pregnant

My husband had an affair and got her pregnant

Her not recognizing your needs as valid, especially for years, is not a free pass to neglect a spouse. I know this sounds horrible but I need to know what I can do to help my husband forgive himself. His wife should have told him to piss off for sure. So lost by: Anonymous My husband and I have been married for 9 months. Don't put in the wife's face What is the relationship like with baby's mama? Three years ago he was going through a very tough time with his now 15 years old son.

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My Husbands 2 Month Affair Has Ended With His Girlfriend Being Pregnant

My husband had an affair and got her pregnant

I hate when good people have to suffer. The fact that she has tacitly suggested you get sex elsewhere is the giant red flag that she has already emotionally checked out of the marriage and is only there as caretakers to your children. He is also very arrogant about the whole thing. I just don't see how our marriage will work. Its been 8 months and I am still in pain.

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6 Things I Learned When My Husband Had an Affair

My husband had an affair and got her pregnant

But I will tell you, these were happy, wonderful people. Ok hope you find what works for you. The illegitimate child will be a daily reminder of your husband's dishonest heart. Most of all, I really hated it when he dismissed me each time I asked him if we could go out and, perhaps, have a date night every now and then. Yet I work 40 hours a week and we barely make ends meet due to his financial obligations and gambling habit. When I found out everything I couldn't help to re-think everything. He could start contact when the baby is slightly older and able to form relationship.

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My Husband Had an Affair While I was Pregnant

My husband had an affair and got her pregnant

Now, expecting her to be joining a Christmas dinner is just vile, disgusting and cruel. It is really important that you find someone to talk to, share the pain and slowly find a way forward. . Also, not that it really matters, she claims they did use protection and she got pregnant anyway. This isn't an appropriate sub to talk about the difficulties of being a cheater, to post about infidelity experiences or complain about consequences of cheating. If you truly saw nothing wrong with your actions, you would tell your wife instead of making all these excuses about how your affair benefits her.

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Sex Confession: Cheating Wife Admits She Got Pregnant From Her Lover

My husband had an affair and got her pregnant

I seek help but that was not working for me. She refused to answer my calls and I don't know her current address. I would rather be alone than with someone who lies and has no respect for me. I know my day will come when I get to be mother. I contacted his wife and she told me they had never been separated and he had never moved out. I decided to ignore and block and she still took the time to locate me somewhere else on social media and was so mad that i didnt answer to say what was i going say demanding for a answer but again she is nothing in my life i do not need to tell her me and bf went to sicologist and the reason we are doing things as long as me and hik know the truth and bless the child because another man can walk in and wont have to sacrifice his own family.

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Wife got pregnant after affair : survivinginfidelity

My husband had an affair and got her pregnant

I do agree that therapy would benefit her a lot, if only to help her find some peace. On hindsight, we should have resolved our issues before we tied the knot. Talk to whoever you need to. This was no accidental pregnancy. Sort Posts by Sub Flair Welcome to the club that no one should ever have to join. Where in the world a 4 yr old have that mentality? My husband is having a child with his mistress by: from S. For the last 5 months we saw my ex a total of 2 times.

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My husband had affair with married woman before marriage

My husband had an affair and got her pregnant

My guess is that she says sees matters from an entirely different perspective and its possible that he has not been 100% honest with you about her too. He ended up getting to keep his job and now has pictures of his family at his desk and wears a wedding ring. You have been kind and generous. Im still torn on what to do. She has a good job, her own home, and has made friends. My boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me and the woman he cheated with had a baby.

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