My husband wants me to pee on him. My husband wants to pee on me and in my mouth. I told him how unsanitary I thought that was but it turns him on so much. Can anyone tell me if it is unhealthy. I really want to please him because he pleases me in so many ways. 2019-12-17

What if My Husband Wants To Do Something Sexually That I Find Degrading?

My husband wants me to pee on him

I love that you understood how hard it was for your partner to share his fantasy, and you tried to keep yourself open even if you might not have initially understood it. If you can't go in front of him right away, don't fret! You should be drinking lots of water anyways so just add an extra glass or two for a few days before you plan to do it and you will be fine. Hey, if they want to have a pee bath, a shit bath, a puke bath - it's all good! It is important to address this matter of one spouse being turned on by something that is humiliating, degrading or just plain mean to the other spouse. I have no interest in this activity, but if a couple together find it enjoyable, by all means, they should shower away. Urine is sterile, but it is also full of things the body doesn't need, mainly minerals; if you ingest this, it forces your kidneys to work twice as hard to filter both the ingested minerals as well as what it already has to filter naturally from other consumption.

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My husband wants to pee on me while we take a bath

My husband wants me to pee on him

Next time you could shower together, and you could try to pee on him there. We laught after all and he txt me all day saying that he could stop thinking about it because was so hot. Anyway, I think the idea of doing this is disgusting and demeaning to the person getting peed on. You might want to ask someone who reads braille to run their fingers over your cock—you know, just to rule out the possibility that Helen Keller is trying to communicate with you from the great beyond. Plain and simple, it is not a loving act. As far as first experiences go, I'd recommend the shower.

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Pee My Panties For Him?

My husband wants me to pee on him

This is not a normal sexual activity and can be seen as forbidden in society's eyes. Some shopping, a vacation or day at a spa seems in order. Can you do a Golden Showers 101? Thanks again Bill for your comment. . Urine is actually clean, mens is more sterile than women's though as the female system is less hygienic.

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Pee My Panties For Him?

My husband wants me to pee on him

My marriage has been like this more or less by the way. However, I can maybe see where some people could potentially find it arousing simply because of the area in which it comes from which of course is very sexual. I let him pee on me on the shower today. As long as no one gets hurt or sick from something it can be a good thing. It's about degradation and superiority. My opinion is that anything one spouse has to coerce the other spouse to do against their will is outside the bounds of the marriage-bed.

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Why does my boyfriend want me to pee on him?

My husband wants me to pee on him

But just peeing on him. From everything I've read on the subject, it's a fairly safe thing to do. If you reach that limit with him pissing on your foot, then so be it and he must just accept that. She told me that she thought it to be unsanitary, and that it was just wrong. Having said that, it makes me feel as though my problem, that caused me to stumble across this blog, is even more ridiculous. This includes sexist and rape jokes.

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[Serious] My boyfriend asked me to pee on him. Where do we start? : sex

My husband wants me to pee on him

Joking or not, asking for pictures, hitting on people, etc, are not welcome here. People once used pee as a tooth whitener. For your first time, I suggest kneeling in the bathtub or shower. This is mostly a 'serious' community - posts and comments that sidetrack discussion will be removed and may result in a ban. I then told her that we as partners in life as well as lovers, grow with each other. Bob JulieSibert September 27, 2011 at 8:21 am Thanks for the comments Bob! Somehow I ended up in my mid 30s with a very vanilla sex life. What may be an issue is the mental side of it for you.

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What if My Husband Wants To Do Something Sexually That I Find Degrading?

My husband wants me to pee on him

You are worth so much more than that. If the thought of indulging it freaks you out, and makes you concerned that you will not be able to see him in a sexual light again, then do not do it. You'll realize later on how much harder it is for you to pee outside of the toilet. Sounds like you two are on the way to a healthy and spicey love life. And at least pee, fresh pee, that is, is considered sterile. It's not an uncommon fetish actually, but I guess we don't generally discuss it at work, dinner parties etc.

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What if My Husband Wants To Do Something Sexually That I Find Degrading?

My husband wants me to pee on him

I think peeing in mouth and faceis gross. The other side of the coin, though, is that there needs to be safety in declining certain acts that one spouse finds degrading. I know you tried to cover that aspect of marriage but in my opinion you focused too much on the fetish in question and not enough on the larger more destructive force of unilateral refusal, which should be used very sparingly and only after much talk and maybe more than a little counseling if the issue is as extreme as the fetish in question. It is a sex-positive community and a safe space for people of all genders and orientations. A lot of people and try to figure out why people are turned on by specific things. I have no clue why someone would get sexually aroused by the idea of being urinated on. One of such fetishes many people have is about peeing during sex or seeing their partner pee during sex.

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Pee My Panties For Him?

My husband wants me to pee on him

God put nature on auto-pilot and allows us to play with it so we can better learn about good and bad on our own skin! My only thing to watch is that your bladder isn't so full that it hurts during sex. Those kind of responses would ensure such vulnerability would not happen again anytime soon. God created sex so that the husband and the wife could feel good. You see the problem with granting absolute power of refusal? Porn is a nice inspiration but should never been taken as the norm. If the object is to be one flesh, would it not be better to have a couple draw together? Some people like the visual aspect. Or perhaps it is due to eroticizing the idea of freedom itself to such an extent that it includes the freedom to buck normality. We get to feel virile, while she gets to relinquish control for a bit.

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What To Do If Your Partner Wants You To Pee On Them

My husband wants me to pee on him

Doing it outdoors or even discretely as possible! Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a , to help us out with the details. If a couple is sabotaging that by either their unreasonable refusal i. Here are seven steps for your first totally healthy, totally normal golden shower. Or your partner may want you to urinate on them without any other water running. If you like the idea of doing it, or like being demeaned and disgusted, so you think you will enjoy it, tell him so. What are the ethics of this? Communicating about your sex life can clear up a lot of issues. He'll probably give you more of an accurate answer.

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